Thursday, August 6, 2009

Something Meaningful

This story has a very good moral do read once

There was once this guy who is very much in love with his girl. This
romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper-cranes as a gift to his girl.
Although, at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future
doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his
girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back.

 
She also told him that she couldn't visualize any future for the both of
them, so let's go their own ways there and then ...Heartbroken, the guy
agreed. But when he regains his confidence, he worked hard day and night,
slogging his body and mind just to make something out of him.
 
Finally with all these hard work and the help of friends, this guy had set
up his own company. You never fail until you stop trying.. One rainy day,
while this guy was driving; he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella the
rain walking to some destination.
 
Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him
long to realize those were his girl's parents. With a heart in getting back
at them, he droved slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his
luxury sedan.
 
He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore; he had his own
company, car, comfort etc. He made it! Before the guy can realize, the
couple was walking towards a cemetery, and he got out of his car and
followed... and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as
ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his paper cranes beside her.
 
Find time to realize that there is one person who means so much to you,
for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant
nothing to you... Her parents saw him. He asks them why had this happened. They
explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was ill with cancer.
 
She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be
his obstacle... therefore she had choose to leave him...
 
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean
they don't love you with all they have.. She had wanted her parents to put his
paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to
her again he can take some of those back with him...
Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may
escape but what's in your heart will remain forever . . .
 
The guy just wept... The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right
beside them and knowing that you can't have them . . .
 
NEVER ABANDON AN OLD FRIEND . . .
YOU WILL NEVER FIND ONE WHO CAN TAKE HIS/HER PLACE . . .
FRIENDSHIP IS LIKE WINE, IT GETS BETTER AS IT GROWS OLDER . . .

Friday, July 10, 2009

Dry Leaf.. My Life . . .

In the sea shore I walk alone.. at nights
My eyes filled with tears
My lips crushed between my teeth
My hands wrapping myself tightly
My heart crying for its own death..

I see no future in front of me
May be I don’t see the one I wished to
It’s hard to get ready for another future
The future where I won’t see you any more
The future where I will forget you completely..

Everything around me is empty now
Everything that had had life before
I will look for a shop where I can buy a new heart
This time I will be careful not to let it fall
At least for the one who is not going to catch it..?

I will start a new beginning
I will color myself in a different brush
To hide my pains from others
I won’t let myself get wet in emotions
I’m just afraid to learn about love again . . .

Sometimes

Sometimes..
Why I feel glad, amidst the sorrows?..
Perhaps..
I search my smiles in my tears.

Sometimes..
Why I feel blessed, amidst the trials?..
Perhaps..
I feel the touch of Almighty in my fears.

Sometimes..
Why I feel loved, amidst the hurt?..
Perhaps..
I trust all my relationships are forever.

Sometimes..
Why I feel good, amidst the losses?..
Perhaps..
I feel, often bad times makes one stronger.

Sometimes..
Why I feel alone, amidst the crowd?..
Perhaps..
I find my soul in my loneliness.

Sometimes..
Why I feel secure, amidst the uncertainty?..
Perhaps..
I believe the power of hope in my helplessness.

Sometimes..
Why I feel peace, amidst the emptiness?..
Perhaps..
I do understand the value of contentment.

Sometimes I wonder?..
Why life is so precious, amidst the bitterness?..
Perhaps..
I learn "Life is beautiful yet mysterious" at the end . . .

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

How Can Love Last Forever if u Want to

Love is the strongest and
Most fulfilling emotion possible
It lets you share your goals, your desires, your experiences
It lets you share your life with someone
It lets you be yourself
With someone who will always support you
It lets you speak your innermost feelings to someone
who understands you
It lets you feel tenderness and warmth
A wholeness that avoids loneliness
Love lets you feel complete
 
But in order to have
A successful love relationship
You must make a strong commitment to each other and love
And you must do and feel everything within your mind and body
to make this commitment work
 
You must be happy with yourself
And you must understand yourself before you can expect someone else
to be happy with you or to understand you
You must be honest about yourself and each other at all times
And not hold any feelings back
You must accept each other the way you are
And not try to change each other
You must be free to grow as individuals yet share your life as one
But not live your life through each other
You must follow your own principals and morals
And not follow what societal roles tell you to do
You must follow the philosophy that men and women are equal
and not treat either person with inferiority in any way
 
In order to have
a lasting love relationship
You must be together always in your heart
but not necessarily always in your activities
You must be proud of each other and love
and not be ashamed to show your sensitive feelings
You must treat everyday spent with each other as special
and not take each other or your love for granted
You must spend time talking with each other everyday
and not be too busy with outside events that you are
too tired for each other
You must understand each other’s moods and feelings
and not hurt each other intentionally
but if your frustrations are taken out on each other
You must both realize that it is not a personal attack
You must be passionate with each other often
and not get into boring patterns
You must continue to have fun and excitement with each other
and not be afraid to try new things
You must always work at love and your love relationship
and not  forget how important this relationship is or
what you would feel like without it
 
Love is the strongest
And most fulfilling emotion possible
If you live
Your commitment to love
You will live your dreams
Between awakenings . . .

Thursday, July 2, 2009

A small story worth reading

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.

The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.

That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc.,

Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.. .......

This can be extended to God too: Give all your stuff - everything, including your worries to Him and then you can sleep peacefully

Friday, June 26, 2009

Unconditional Love For a Frnd

A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco.
"Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with me."

"Sure," they replied, "we'd love to meet him."
"There's something you should know the son continued, "he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mind and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us."

"I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live."

"No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us."
"Son," said the father, "you don't know what you're asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can't let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own."

At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide. The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn't know, their son had only one arm and one leg.

The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. Thankfully, there's someone who won't treat us that way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we are.

My Lord

My fragile heart is breaking with the growing rudeness of humankind
Tell me, Oh my Lord where a little bit of joy can I find?
If I shed a few drop of tears the world laughs at me mockingly,
When I am serious about something, people take it jokingly.

If I am friendly, my folks behave in a strange resentful way.
I want to be close to them, but they move away.

No one spares my emotions and blows them like a cigar’s smoke.
Life becomes so suffocating that it is prepared to choke.
It strangulates me with huge number of problems unsolved.
But in all my prayers my Lord you are always involved.

You will give me strength to fight for justice
One day surely the tornadoes of grief will cease.

You will light my trail with eternal bliss
In your feet my worn out soul will rest in peace.